Betty Dodson Quotes

There is no such thing as a sphere for sex. Every man has a different sphere, in which he may or may not shine, and it is the same with every woman, and the same woman may have a different sphere at different times.

I once had a problem ... so I tried group sex. Now I have a new problem - who to thank.

I don't know, monogamy is a weird thing for me.

I can't fly a flag for monogamy or whatever the opposite is; it depends on the person and on the situation.

If our sex life were determined by our first youthful experiments, most of the world would be doomed to celibacy. In no area of human experience are human beings more convinced that something better can be had only if they persevere.

My sex life is so bad, my G-spot has been declared a historical landmark.

Frigidity is largely nonsense. It is this generation's catchword, one only vaguely understood and constantly misused. Frigid women are few. There is a host of diffident and slow-ripening ones.

No sex is better than bad sex.

Martial sex is kinda like ordering a Civil War chess set through the mail. You get one piece every four to six weeks, you don't know what kind of shape that piece is gonna be in when you get it, but you still gotta pay the handling charges.

I don't believe in monogamy, possessing people, the rightness or inevitability of jealousy.

Females do not have orgasms every time they have sex.

Sex is logically impossible after marriage. You have to overcome the paradox of Not this again, and Hey, where did you learn that?

I don't think our system, where we have one romantic partner, where we get married and we're only supposed to have sex with one person - that doesn't make a lot of sense. Not that polygamy makes any more sense. I've found a system that seems to work for me, and it doesn't require monogamous commitment from anyone.

In the case of some women, orgasms take quite a bit of time. Before signing on with such a partner, make sure you are willing to lay aside, say, the month of June, with sandwiches having to be brought in.

In the sex education process in schools, the one thing that they teach about is how to get pregnant and how to not get pregnant. But they don't really talk about sex as a point of pleasure for women.

We don't say a man's ill if he's crazy about sex, if he can't get enough sex. Why should a woman be different?

Sex should be friendly. Otherwise stick to mechanical toys; it's more sanitary.

If sex is a pain in the ass, then you're doing it wrong.

Life can be swamped by sex very easily if sex is not normally satisfied.

A monogamous marriage and family is what some women want - but not all of us. We are mostly doing serial monogamy anyway.

I'm all for sex. Seven nights a week. Days, too.

The difficulty of writing about sex, for women, is that sex is best when not thought about, not analysed.

Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn't know rejection and humiliation so intimately.

The ideal length of time for sex to last is the entire relationship, breaking only for snacks.

Healthy, lusty sex is wonderful.