Niecy Nash Quotes

Never expect people to treat you any better than you treat yourself.

If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?

We teach people how to treat us.

Sometimes we are so busy helping others that we forget about ourselves. Remember, it's okay to say no and to ask others to carry their own weight.

If you can't love me the right way, then don't love me at all. Don't be mad at me because I prefer to be happy.

A portable friend to all readers-especia lly but not only women-who need to learn that the Golden Rule works only if it's reversible: We must learn to treat ourselves as well as we wish to treat others.

The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than we love ourselves. We cannot treat anyone any better than we treat ourselves. When you forget you, give up on you, or devalue yourself, anyone coming into your life has a universal responsibility to follow your lead.

Every girl has days when she doesn't like her appearance, but it's when you feel happy in yourself that you look good.

It's easy to love yourself when you feel good enough, when you feel special enough, when you're loved enough, when you have enough money, and you're appreciated.

I didn't write my book, 'I Don't Care About Your Band,' in order to give women a brand-new set of dating rules they need to feel terrible about not abiding. I wrote my book to make the women who read it feel good about themselves, and a little more entitled to be treated well by the guys they go out with.

Love is not as important as good health. You cannot be in love if you're not healthy. You can't appreciate it.

I hate a movie that will end by telling you that the first thing you should do is learn to love yourself. That is so insulting and condescending, and so meaningless. My characters don't learn to love each other or themselves.

It's my crusade to help women feel good about themselves.

Looking good is the best revenge.

There's nobody who cares more about you than you, and there's nobody better equipped to take care of you than you.

If you're taking care of yourself, then what can somebody else tell you?

For me, when I go to bed at night, I am happy that I haven't hurt someone. And if I think I have, I will rectify it. I now refuse to give someone permission to make me feel bad about myself. They can't make me feel bad about myself if I don't allow it.

We have to take care of ourselves if we are going to take care of anyone else properly.

I just try to feel good in my own skin as much as I can.

I love looking in the mirror and feeling good about what I see.

I can't always live my life for everybody else.

My goal is to teach readers how to treat and respect themselves and each other in an entertaining way. I do that in all of my books.

Confidence comes from within and as long as you are putting forth a respectable effort to take good care of yourself, you should feel confident about that path.

I encourage women to just feel good about who you are.

I'm careful with my heart. I don't take crap from no one these days. I put my foot down. Being a woman, you deserve heaven and earth.