Paul Henderson Quotes

We don't have to do it any better than we can - ever. Do our best for the moment, then let it go. If we have to redo it, we can do our best in another moment, later.

I typically take life one day at a time.

I'm like a recovering perfectionist. For me it's one day at a time.

Acceptance is the magic that makes change possible. It is not forever, it is for the present moment

but you can't spend your whole life hoping people will ask you the right questions. you must learn to love and answer the questions they already ask.

I think as I've gotten older, I've learned to look at life and take every day as it comes.

We have to learn to adapt to people and changes. Change is good.

At different times in my life, I've made grand statements like, 'I want these many kids, and I want them by this age.' I think, with every year that goes by, I accept that I don't know when it's going to happen or how it's going to happen. I'll just take it one day at a time, and when I'm ready, I'll be ready. It'll reveal itself, I guess.

Don't use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and don't worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.

You cannot control another human being, and you just have to learn to go with the flow and laugh at yourself, in whatever capacity.

When you have tough times, and when you learn you can't be perfect in every situation, it's hard to accept, you know, because I still do expect that. But you just have to, because, you know, it's not about the situation. It's how you deal with it. You always have a choice.

You must welcome change as the rule but not as your ruler.

Accept what you cannot control.

My life was always one year here, I squeezed out what I could from it, enjoyed it the most possible and changed. That was the way of life I had.

I'm that type of person that loves change.

I take life one day at a time.

Pregnancy has been a huge lesson in patience and in allowing myself to be open to whatever the day may hand me.

Waiting to be 'better' is the wrong approach. It's learning to live with it.

In order to be successful, I had to be willing to grow and change to become whoever I needed to be.

One day at a time is all we do. One day at a time is good for you

You keep learning how to let go and to live the life that you actually have, as opposed to the life you thought you were going to have.

I try to give myself permission to be a work-in-progress and not have everything figured out at once. It's more manageable and takes some of the pressure off of feeling like I have to have everything right all the time.

Healing is a coming to terms with things as they are, rather than struggling to force them to be as they once were, or as we would like them to be, to feel secure or to have what we sometimes think of as our own way.

In this speedy world of ours when facts are multiplying rapidly and giant rearrangements are happening all around us, it seems dangerous to be made nervous by the new - to want what we can never have, to want things not to be rearranged. It would be better to be able to take the leap, which is to be able not only to live with change and newness, but even to help make it.

I'm always adapting, I'm always learning, and I'm always changing.