Jane Welsh Carlyle Quotes
It is odd what notions men seem to have of the scantiness of a woman's resources. They do not find it anything out of nature that they should be able to exist by themselves; but a woman must always be borne about on somebody's shoulders, and dandled or chirped to, or it is supposed she will fall into the blackest melancholy!
Carlyle, Jane Welsh. Letters and Memorials of Jane Welsh Carlyle. Edited by James Anthony Froude, Charles Scribner's Sons, 1883.
Although this was written in a 1920 letter, the letter was not publicly published until 1970.
Jane Welsh Carlyle was a Scottish writer. She did not publish any work in her lifetime, but she was widely seen as an extraordinary letter writer. Virginia Woolf called her one of the "great letter writers," and Elizabeth Hardwick described her work as a "private writing career."