I like to create what I call 'tablescapes.' It's so much more fun when you organize your table around a theme, don't you think?
One of the best things to do with tablescapes in my experience, is really curating them with things that you've collected.
The Kennedys tried to avoid using the big U-shaped table, but when they couldn't, they had several tricks - including keeping the flowers simple - to keep it from appearing overly stiff and formal.
There are certain parts of the home that I think embellishment feels cozy and inviting. Then there are other environments, for example, the living room, where I don't have a ton of items on the table.
I buy wine according to the bottle design. After I get down the first glass it all tastes okay to me so I figure you go for something classy to look at on the table
Table the label and wear your own name.
For holidays, I like doing special cheery touches around the table, like color-coordinating the plates and napkins to fit the theme.
I hate perfect centerpieces and formal tablescapes.
I invited myself. Thought this table needed some class.