Technically it's not premarital sex if you don't plan on marrying them.
Choosing elements for your wedding day should be fun, but these choices won't make any difference in the stuff that matters. For better or worse, you'll end that day married to your partner, and that's the truly exciting part.
Make your relationship your number-one priority.
If you change partners every time it gets tough or you get a little dissatisfied, then I don't think you get the richness that's available in a long-term relationship.
After watching my poor mother being sometimes neglected by my father, it was almost tattooed on my brain that I would never cause hardship or despair to a partner.
The feather in your cap is to get a man you love who'll marry you.
I will never want to be linked with a man who can't stand for his woman.
I'd like to get married because I like the idea of a man being required by law to sleep with me every night.
You know he's invested when he doesn't treat his 'friend time' and 'girlfriend time' as mutually exclusive.
What we do for each other before marriage is no indication of what we will do after marriage.
The wedding vows are a license to be a complete jerk, with full knowledge that the person you married has agreed, no matter how large a horse's ass you are, to stay by your side until death. A fool could tell you this is a bad deal.
