T. Harv Eker Quotes

If you are willing to change your thinking, you can change your feelings. If you change your feelings, you can change your actions. And changing your actions - based on good thinking - can change your life.

Attitudes are the forerunners of conditions.

It's unfortunate, you know, that you can't change people's - habits, their personal habits.

Image isn't everything, It's what comes from your heart, and what you learn and what you say and how you act that means more than anything.

One can acquire some virtues by feigning them for a long time.

Recognizing the structure of your psychology doesn't mean that you can easily rebuild it.

The trouble with most therapy is that it helps you feel better. But you don't get better. You have to back it up with action, action, action.

Where you now stand is a result of thoughts and feelings that you have offered before, but where you are going is a result of your perspective of where you now stand.

Fine feelings, new insights, greater interest in ʿreligionʾ mean nothing unless they make our actual behavior better.

Good or bad, habits always deliver results.

A good deal of education consists of unlearning-the breaking of bad habits as with a tennis serve.

When you change the way you look at a thing, the thing itself changes...By mastering feelings, she had come to understand the meaning of discipline and its reward: freedom and power.

The true secret of spiritual strength is self-distrust and deep humilty.

Your thinking, more than anything else, shapes the way you live. It's really true that if you change your thinking, you can change your life.

What activities, behaviors, or decisions have been most responsible for your success in life? Do more of them.

God desires to change us from the inside out. Renewing our minds, starving our self-destructive tendencies, and teaching us to form new habits.

Always remember, actions speak louder than words. No one's perfect, but we can all strive to be better people.

So, on the whole, I'd have to say that no, people don't change, but they CAN learn to behave differently. I want to believe otherwise. If you have an argument that says I'm wrong, I'd be glad to hear it.

‎"Don't bother too much about your feelings. When they are humble, loving, brave, give thanks for them; when they are conceited, selfish, cowardly, ask to have them altered. In neither case are they you, but only a thing that happens to you. What matters is your intentions and your behavior

One has to try to develop one's inner feelings, which can be done simply by training one's mind. This is a priceless human asset and one you don't have to pay income tax on!

New habits make new horizons. Silently and imperceptibly you are forming habits which will ultimately determine the degree of your happiness and success. Closely guard the quality of your thoughts, that they may lead to right habits and thence to right living. Recognize and use such supreme qualities as courage, faith, humility, loyalty, temperance, and integrity.

There are people we treat wrong and later, we're prepared to treat other people right.

I want people to like me - but not at my expense. I just learned that there are too many people who are going to have an opinion about me whether I am kind to them or not. I can't control what they're feeling. I am not a yeller and I don't have a temper, but I do want people to do their best. And if someone is a friend and I see that they're doing stuff that is not helping them grow, I will make it a point to talk to them about it.

I think actually that the speech work I do is fine. It's important, because I try to help people think about what's going on and organize their lives accordingly.

Every change in human attitude must come through internal understanding and acceptance. Man is the only known creature who can reshape and remould himself by altering his attitude.