O. T. Fagbenle Quotes

Our relationship was one of the things that helped break up my first marriage. Miss Loren was always phoning me, and I'd go rushing all over Italy to be with her.

I feel very grateful that I have never had to be or ever chosen to be or accidentally found myself to be in the space of the other woman.

When I was working on 'Drown' - this was way back in the mid-'90s - I had this idea that I wanted to do another collected stories. I wanted to do another book like 'Drown' that focused specifically on infidelity.

I discovered my wife in bed with another man, and I was crushed. So I said, 'Get off me, you two!'

TV loves to bring in affairs - as soon as you have a relationship, let's screw it up.

If your husband's going to leave you for anyone, it might as well be Elizabeth Taylor.

I'm not just a cuckolded wife.

Men are different. When they are in love they may also have other girlfriends.

Your wife doesn't want to hear a word about how hot your mistress is, and vice versa.

There is one thing I would break up over, and that is if she caught me with another woman. I won't stand for that.

I once threw a water balloon on a girl because I caught her cheating on me. She was kissing my friend and I thought, 'Oh, this can't be happening.' It was bad and I was much older than you think throwing a water balloon. I was 14.

In my relationship with a young guy I was going with in a band - his name was Sylvester, and I think he had another little girl on the side - I told him, 'If you lose me, you're going to lose a good thing.' And I went home and put that poem to music.

Love is a game in which one always cheats.

It only took one text message to change my life. That's when I discovered my loving husband had been unfaithful. His infidelities ended our marriage.

Infidelity is horrible - there's nothing worse than that; it's devastating.

People are always fascinated by infidelity because, in the end - whether we've had direct experience or not - there's part of you that knows there's absolutely no more piercing betrayal. People are undone by it.

Men, no matter what their promises, rarely leave their spouses... the louses.

Every man I knew went to bed with Gilda... and woke up with me.

It is easier to keep half a dozen lovers guessing than to keep one lover after he has stopped guessing.

PS: It's all gossip about the prince. I'm not in the habit of taking my girlfriends' beaux.

I'm not getting within 20 feet of a married man ever again - not even talking to one!

Because I've been on the receiving end of infidelity, I know how much it hurts.

In high school, my prom date fooled around with another guy - on prom night!

If you're dating the quarterback and then you go out with the hockey player, you just go to the hockey games. I don't think I'll still go to the football games.

A woman one loves rarely suffices for all our needs, so we deceive her with another whom we do not love.