The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.
I only seem to date younger women.
Women go after doctors like men go after models. They want someone with knowledge of the body. We just want the body.
Beware the cute, hot guy who kind of reminds you of the parent you don't get along with: your cold, distant father who left when you were a kid or your hot-tempered mother whom you could never please.
The man's desire is for the woman; but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man.
I think what often happens when people leave their spouse for someone else is they tend to go for the opposite of what they already have.
I seem to be attracted to the quiet, brooding type. But not too brooding. Too brooding can be narcissistic. Or psychotic.
Why are tall guys always attracted to short women? Not just moderately short women, either... Tiny women. Polly Pockets. The tallest guys always-always-always go for the shortest girls. Always. It's like they're so infatuated with their own height that they want to be with someone who makes them feel even taller. Someone they can tower over. A little doll that will make them feel even bigger and stronger.
I have always seen cold and controlled men as the right ones for me.
What I really want is to sit next to someone under an L.L. bean blanket on the beach in the fall and drink coffee from the same mug. I don't want some rusty '73 Ford Pinto with a factory-defective gas tank that causes it to explode when it's rear-ended in the parking lot of the supermarket. So why do I keep looking for Pintos?
