Aimee Bender Quotes

Everything will change. The only question is growing up or decaying.

You collect people to take with you. Some people change, other people don't... it's wonderful because I've met some incredible friends.

Technological progress has merely provided us with more efficient means for going backwards.

We're very reluctant to change, even though we know that all things change, and especially our relationships are just determined to change.

But just as haste and restlessness are typical of our present-day life, so change also takes place more rapidly than before. This applies to change in the relationships between nations as it does to change within an individual nation.

All that is human must retrograde if it does not advance.

A human being is a being who is constantly 'under construction,' but also, in a parallel fashion, always in a state of constant destruction.

'PKP' was one of its kind, and 'PKP 2' is a very different take on love.

The people that we sometimes start our journeys with are not the people we end the journeys with.

You either get better or you get worse. Those are the only two options.

A lover is always accused of something. But when he finds his love, whatever was lost in the looking comes back completely changed.

Love never goes away; it just changes form.

The process of transformation consists mostly of decay.

One learns to accept the fact that no permanent return is possible to an old form of relationship; and, more deeply still, that there is no holding of a relationship to a single form. This is not tragedy but part of the ever-recurrent miracle of life and growth.

All relationships are living and alive and moving and becoming something.

Trying to hold onto any relationship as it was, keeps you from the joyous adventure of what it can become.

Love joins and then divides. How else would we be growing?

Love changes us, but we change how we love too.

Family isn’t something that’s supposed to be static, or set. People marry in, divorce out. They’re born, they die. It’s always evolving, turning into something else.

You're never the same. You're degrading, or you're getting better. You don't stay the same.

Life does not stand still. Where there is no progress, there is disintegration.

You are either getting better or getting worse, but you are never staying the same.

You never stay the same. You either get better or you get worse.

He leaned back a little, not taking his arm from around me, but looking into my eyes. “You’re changing, Zoey. And I’m not sure what you’re changing into.

The future is but the obsolete in reverse.