Caroline Flack Quotes

I had to learn - since I'm divorced now and everyone is like, 'Oh my God, you're single, what's going on?' - that if I don't like to spend time with myself, how can I ask someone else to enjoy spending time with me? I'm getting to learn how to enjoy my solitude and have a good time.

I find running life quite hard, and I like sharing that. Obviously, the companionship, being loved and loving, is fantastic. But I don't feel that I couldn't live without a boyfriend or lover or husband.

If you can't be with yourself, you'll never learn to be with anyone else.

I'd rather grow alone with my girlfriends than with someone I'm not in love with.

Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love.

Having people I love around me - friends and family - is great, but I don't necessarily need a relationship.

You are so much better off on your own than with the wrong person.

People should accept being single, because those are the moments you can really focus on yourself, and learning who you are. Then when you get in a relationship, you will be stronger and have a little bit more self-awareness, self-love, and the other ingredients for a healthy relationship.

Be able to be alone. Lose not the advantage of solitude, and the society of thyself.

I really do feel like I know myself, and I'm so happy to be by myself and I'm so happy to be with other people; I just know myself really, really well, and I think that is an amazing thing. I think a lot of people don't know themselves that well.

I was alone for five years. Having a love is a gigantic bonus in life, but I wasn't unhappy when I was single, either.

It took me 36 years to be able to be by myself and like it.

Relationships are beautiful, and it's wonderful to find someone you can spend time with and share your life with. But there's also a lot of pressure attached to that. And I think you can't be in a relationship until you have discovered yourself fully.

I think if we want to find happiness by finding a life partner, then it's a little selfish. You should be complete within yourself, so that when you're in a relationship, you can give out happiness rather than expect it.

Therapy was the biggest romance of my life.

Experiencing those moments of being alone... is a very, very weird flooring and exposing position to be in when you're just not used to it... But I've never been lonely. And with my kids Mia and Joe that remains the case.

I learned about not just being with someone because I don't want to be alone: being willing to be alone, and then find something that feels right and just reaching for companionship for companionship's sake. Not letting drama lead my life.

I feel like I see so much online of people being cynical about never being able to find love, and it's become, like, cool. You don't need it by any means. You can live without it, and you can totally be self-independent and happy. But you can also be in a great relationship that's rewarding and loving and caring - and that exists.

I don't believe I've ever truly been in love because I don't believe that I've known myself well enough in the past to allow someone to love me.

This whole thing about a woman staying alone and being happy is just a myth. Everyone needs someone in their lives.

I've learned that I need to appreciate time by myself and that I don't need a partner to complete me.

It is nice to be social and have lots of friends. We need all that warmth and love. But at the end of the day, you need that one person to rely on and that should only be you.

When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.

Being by myself, that is to say, without a man - it's been a long time - is allowing me to know what it feels like - to live in my own skin, to remember what I miss and don't miss about a relationship.

Before we can make friends with anyone else, we must first make friends with ourselves.