Hector Elizondo Quotes

Love, like life, is much stranger and far more complicated than one is brought up to believe.

Secondly, love and relationships are complicated. No one could ever get it right in a four-line sentence.

Fraternity without absorption, union without fusion.

I am not married yet, but I think ultimately in a good marriage it is the relationship which is the most important thing. It is not a matter of who is right and who is wrong; it is a one plus one equals more than two.

I've been in a few love triangles. I've been in a love quadrilateral.

I do think the secret to a good marriage is separate bathrooms.

Love is agony, isn't it? I've been involved with someone for some time now, but it's all so complicated. It's never straightforward is it? You meet someone, you fall in love, it's the most wonderful thing ever but... There's always something that's not quite right about love, isn't there?

Life's complicated and people do things for a lot of reasons.

The most important thing for a good marriage is to learn how to argue peaceably.

You can have an intense connection to someone without being a good, lifelong mate for him. Love is complicated and difficult that way.

The interaction between the two matters, but to me, each doesn't really exist independently of the other, so I'm not ever faced with a situation where the tone is wrong for the story, or the story wrong for the tone. They are two parts of one thing.

I feel like music and design complete the idea of each other for me. So, it's like whatever I'm trying to express in one really can't be fully expressed without the other. I've always seen them as the flipside of a coin and bounced back and forth.

Men and women are complements to each other, physically and otherwise.

We read this article that discussed the shape of our hearts. It said that God shaped the heart that way in order for us to find our other half - the other part that would complete the shape. Quen completes me.

It's a good marriage because each of us is what we are, allows the other one to be themselves, and appreciates each other for the right reason. You know, it's rare that you'll find two people who don't try to change the other person and let everyone be what they are.

Good closets make for a good marriage.

I'm not a blokey bloke. I don't take myself too seriously. But that doesn't stop me being a bad person sometimes and doing things I regret. Such as having a child with someone you've split up with, then falling in love and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone else. That's quite difficult.

the world is just as concrete, ornery, vile, and sublimely wonderful as before, only now I better understand my relation to it and it to me.

I had thought loving two people so much would straighten it.

I can no longer say my love and your love; they are both alike in their perfect mutuality.

Love makes everything complicated.

...love is essentially a much simpler phenomenon--it becomes complicated, corrupted or obstructed by an unequal balance of power.

Voluntary dependence is the wonderful form of existence, and how could that be possible without love?

Trying to describe a good marriage is like trying to describe your adrenal glands. You know they're in there functioning but you don't really understand how they work.