Russell Lynes Quotes
It is always well to accept your own shortcomings with candor but to regard those of your friends with polite incredulity.
Lynes, Russell. Snobs: A Guidebook to Your Friends, Your Enemies, Your Colleagues, and Yourself. Harper & Brothers, 1950, p. 52.
There is a corollary to this proverb, that frequently reflects itself in Arab culture. It is that one who is not strong must never concede. To concede out of strength is manly and noble. To concede out of weakness is cowardly and base. Middle Eastern International politics is totally irrational to Westerners when a badly defeated country of group will often not even meet with the victors to discuss peace or terms of surrender. It is the victors only who can make concessions without losing dignity and respect.
Russell Lynes was an American art historian, photographer, author and managing editor of Harper's Magazine.