Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield Quotes
It is always right to detect a fraud, and to perceive a folly; but it is very often wrong to expose either. A man of business should always have his eyes open, but must often seem to have them shut.
Stanhope, Philip Dormer. Letters to His Son on the Fine Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman. Edited by Oliver H. G. Leigh, M. Walter Dunne, 1901.
… to escape censure a man must pass his whole life without saying or doing one ill or foolish thing.
This of course applied mostly to public personages and applied not only in the political arena but also in the social arena.
Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield, was a British statesman, and a man of letters, and wit. Educated at Trinity Hall, Cambridge, he subsequently embarked on the Grand Tour of the Continent, to complete his education as a nobleman, by exposure to the cultural legacies of Classical antiquity and the Renaissance, and to become acquainted with his aristocratic counterparts and the polite society of Continental Europe.