James Marsters Quotes

So many people go through life, and they never deal with their own issues, no matter what the issues are - ours happen to be gender identity. But, how many people go through life and just waste an entire life 'cause they'd never deal with themselves to be who they are.

I don't know what else I would be if I wasn't me. I am not looking from the outside, looking back. I am who I am.

I'm asked all the time in interviews about who I am, and I know a few people my age who have a strong sense of self, but I couldn't say I know myself and sum it up and give it to you in a little package. I don't know myself at all yet.

I've never, ever labeled myself.

It's so hard to know where you belong, ever. You have to be yourself and let yourself fall wherever you fall.

I think people who struggle to define themselves might never be satisfied because there is no definition. Living with responsibility is important, but I don't really think you have to grow up.

I am still so naïve; I know pretty much what I like and dislike; but please, don’t ask me who I am. A passionate, fragmentary girl, maybe?

I'm trying to play the truth of what I am. The reason it's difficult is because I'm changing all the time.

I have never regarded myself as this or that. I have been too busy being myself to bother about regarding myself.

My problem was I let myself become known before I knew myself.

One of the greatest moments in anybody's developing experience is when he no longer tries to hide from himself but determines to get acquainted with himself as he really is.

I am a very honest person, and I can only say there are moments in my life where I really did think I was being me in the sense of my morals and beliefs and the way I acted. But when I look back at certain things that I wore and my hair and make-up, I was like, 'Whoa! That wasn't me!' But I didn't know it back then.

A great epiphany: I found out that I'm totally confused and I'm good with that. I'm consistently inconsistent. I'm all of the above. I'm OK. I'm a work in progress. That's my next tattoo somewhere.

I worry that if I enjoy something - like the songs on 'Some Nights' are about wondering about who you are. I'm never quite sure and I'd hate to feel sort of content and get a good sense of who I am because if I know one thing, that's not me. I don't mind not necessarily being happy about it. And that's fine.

In my early 30s, I started to realise I was avoiding something on a personal level, but also as a writer. I was in denial about who I was, and was trying to be someone who I was not.

I know that I am what I am. But I am not sure what I am.

Worthy or not, my life is my subject, and my subject is my life.

I have been a woman for fifty years, and I've never yet been able to discover precisely what it is I am.

Knowing yourself and expressing it is hip. I think knowing yourself is the real journey, for me anyway.

One of my problems is to find the self.

You don't just wake up one day and decide who you are. I hope that people see that it's okay not to have labels nor label anyone else. Step back. We're all just trying to figure it out.

All I can do is be me, whoever that is.

Over a long period of time, living as if you were someone else is no fun.

You have to go through a mental and emotional process to recognize who you really are. I finally recognized that I cannot be defined by one country.

The world can't tell you who you are. You've just got to figure out who you are and be there, for better or worse.