Javan Quotes

I find running life quite hard, and I like sharing that. Obviously, the companionship, being loved and loving, is fantastic. But I don't feel that I couldn't live without a boyfriend or lover or husband.

Create a world, your world. Alone. Stand alone. And then love will come to you, then it comes to you.

But in spite of my great desire for intimacy, I've always been a loner. Perhaps when the longing for connection is as strong as it is in me, when the desire is for something so deep and true, one knows better than to try. One sees that this is not the place for that.

My goal was to be able to be alone without food, sugar, phone, men, TV, anything and to feel O.K. about myself.

I want people to love me, but it's not going to hurt me if they don't.

The last time I saw him he was walking down lover's lane holding his own hand.

When everything is lonely I can be my best friend.

You are so much better off on your own than with the wrong person.

You must learn to exist with no religion, no country, no allies. You must learn to live alone in silence.

I really always expected to somebody to make me happy and I don't think you can really enter into a relationship until you are happy.

I thought I had to help people get me, but I don't think they need to be spoon-fed. If you connect with me, that is cool. I don't need the whole world to feel like I am a soul angel.

People will occasionally ask me if I understand what it's like to be lonely. And the truth is I don't, because for me, solitariness is a blessing, a gift. Me, I get on fine with myself.

I'm not running around looking for love and validation.

It is very easy to love alone.

Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self.

If you have a good inner life, you don't get lonely. I've got a good imagination. I don't miss romance.

The truth is you only have yourself to offer. And when you come to that realization, it's terrifying, because you think it's probably not enough.

Human beings need to feel that they are lovable and capable of loving.

Nobody loves me as much as I love me, so I guess I'll just be my own valentine.

When we find comfort in knowing that all the love and support we need is housed inside us, we can honestly share that joy with others without needing anything in return.

I don't need to be validated by anybody else; I don't need to be accepted or approved of for my happiness.

You can never satisfy other people, I learned. End of the day, it's extremely important that you know yourself better than anybody else, and if you can do that, it doesn't matter what anybody thinks about you, good or bad.

I don't need a man to tell me he loves me; I don't need this industry to tell me it loves. I love myself.

It is nice to be social and have lots of friends. We need all that warmth and love. But at the end of the day, you need that one person to rely on and that should only be you.