Kirti Kulhari Quotes

Trust is not about what you can or cannot do in the name of love but who you are and what you choose to reveal as things progress and evolve.

Take responsibility and make a relationship the best it can be. We're all afraid of being hurt. Get rid of that fear. Be in the moment and enjoy the relationship - or you'll ruin it.

If you have feelings for someone, be honest with yourself and the person you care about, but trust that there is someone out there who will love you for who you are and will stay by your side.

The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.

When it comes to relationships, it's nice to have something that is your own and not everyone else's. That's not part of my job. I never stood up on a podium and said, 'Vote for me - I'm perfect. I'll be this for you and never do anything wrong.'

I'll date one day if I find someone that I want to let into my life enough.

All my other relationships with men, there was so much maneuvering and strategic decisions and stuff.

Every 10 years, I know less about love and relationships. The smarter I get, the less I know.

You must have love as the core; it takes courage to be willing to constantly tell the truth to each other and risk letting the relationship go.

To have a relationship that is pure and passionate and beautiful - I think people are scared of having that now. Especially guys.

I believe in singularity in relationships because you've got to have trust on both sides.

I have rules for a lot of areas of my life. Love is not going to be one of them.

Real love is more than a physical feeling. If there's even the slightest doubt in your head about a guy, then forget about it. It's not real.

You like someone, you court each other, you get into a relationship. You're answerable to each other. Whereas, the non-answerability of dating, my God, I don't know if I would ever be able to.

Love' is a big step. It's a big word. You have to work your way to it.

I think if you're in love, you're willing to do anything that comes with it.

Love is a component of many different things - the baggage you bring, the moment, what you need in your life, seeing someone as a portal for understanding everything, and all the intensity that brings. It's not something to count on and act like it's a stable thing.

When you are seeing somebody, then obviously it's a commitment. And if you don't want to commit, then don't be in a relationship. Every relationship deserves a certain credibility and respectability. For me, it's always been like that.

If you're speaking of love, you really must include the element of uncertainty - and perhaps it's best approached as the art of constant maintenance.

You may not be able to help whom you are attracted to, but you can choose to whom you love and how. That is to say that love is a commitment that your heart and your mind make. It is an active and ever-evolving process, a conscious choice that takes effort and maintenance.

I'm not going to be in a relationship that I don't fully trust.

When you're just shagging girls, you can talk about it, but once it gets real, then you don't.

I think love can be really tough. Because it involves ultimately an honesty to the nth degree that you are capable of. Once said, you've lost your deposit. It's best if you don't say it.

I think being able to really fall in love with someone is the craziest thing that could ever happen. You know, allowing yourself to really go there and really feel those things is extremely scary.

I think I passed up a lot of opportunities for love because I was too interested in identity politics.