Nico Tortorella Quotes

I think people sometimes get the wrong impression when they're like, Oh, well, so-and-so was straight and then she was gay, and now she's straight again, you know? But it's like, how many times do I have to kiss a woman before I'm gay? Everybody wants to label people. Sometimes you just fall in love with somebody, and you're really not thinking about what gender or whatever they happen to be. It think that if I happen to fall in love with a woman, everyone's going to make a big deal out of it. But if I happen to fall in love with a man, nobody cares.

Look, a lot of people don't think that the way that I live my life is a real thing, that it exists, that having a broad spectrum of sexual orientation is even possible.

It seems to me that the real clue to your sexual orientation lies in your romantic feelings rather than your sexual feelings. If you are really gay, you are able to fall in love with a man, not just enjoy sex with him.

I don't think there is such a thing as a precise sexual orientation. I think we're all ambiguous sexually.

I don't feel like millions of people are wrong because they love who they love or they were born how they were born.

I'm not a gay rights activist.

I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love.

I'm not a homophobic.

I love women, but I've never had a relationship with a woman.

I'm bisexual.

A lot of people judge bisexuality as 'being promiscuous' or something like that. But I believe you can love somebody; you can fall in love with a person's soul.

I thought maybe I was bisexual.

I can honestly say that I am open to love in any way. I guess that makes me bisexual.

Queerness is the lens that I live my life through.

You can fall in love with anyone. I naturally migrate toward men first; some people may be more open about it. Personally, it's not me.

I Like Gay Men, Right Ken?

You could say I don't want for me be seen primarily as a gay writer. I've never hidden my sexuality. It matters that I'm gay, it matters that I'm white, it matters that I'm male, it matters that I'm American. But basically it's just less and less of a big deal.

I don't trust any man who hasn't kissed another man.

The first book we fall in love with shapes us every bit as much as the first person we fall in love with.

Human beings are distinguished by a capacity for experience as well as by their behavior, and homosexuality is as much a matter ofemotion as of genital manipulation.... As we each examine our own sense of identity we realize how much more complex is the question of homosexuality than a mere Kinsey-like computation of orgasms.

Asexuality does not make our lives any worse or any better, we just face a different set of challenges than most sexual people.

Love affairs have always greatly interested me, but I do not greatly care for them in books or moving pictures. In a love affair, I wish to be the hero, with no audience present.

When I meet a woman who attracts me, I prefer women,' she said. 'And when I meet a man who attracts me, I prefer men.' 'You mean you haven't made up your mind yet.' 'I mean exactly what I said. I told you you wouldn't like it. Most people who ask want me definitely on one side or the other.

Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are.

I love gay people. Or as I sometimes call them, 'people.'