Suhasini Mulay Quotes

Half the bloody world is going through a divorce; more than that are having children. All of us have parents who are dying or have died. It's just the life cycle.

I do want to get married again, and I want to have kids. And this time, I really want to do it right.

When my father died in my arms it had such a profound affect on me that at that very moment when my dad passed I realized that I needed to face my own fears.

My parents were married my whole life until my father passed away a few years ago.

I had one relative who passed away but fortunately none others. So my sort of experience of it is quite limited, thankfully.

I think if my child died I would prefer it if I were dead.

And I would like to marry and have more children. I would like to try and do it right.

The natural effect of sorrow over the dead is to refine and elevate the mind.

Our life is all about the choices we make, and when I was looking for a mate for life, I really was looking for someone who was a family man, somebody who would embrace my girls as much as they were going to embrace me. I guess I just wasn't finished having children yet.

Those who have lost an infant are never, in a way, without an infant.

I thought I had a handle on my priorities before Elizabeth and I lost our oldest son to stillbirth.

If watching your child die is a parent's worst nightmare, imagine having to tell your other child that his sister is dead... Although I am certain that he cried, that we all cried, what I remember more is how we collapsed into each other, as if the weight of our loss literally crushed us.

My mother Molly had a nervous breakdown after my father Chic died, aged 50. He was a very generous man who ran a shop in Dundee giving a lot of people tick. When he died, a lot of people hadn't paid their bills, so he died with a lot of debt. After he died, my mother went doolally.

To a father, when a child dies, the future dies; to a child when a parent dies, the past dies.

Anything that opens you up emotionally is going to impact your acting. Parenthood, becoming a mom, certainly does that.

And in that time, I lost my dad and had kids of my own. It was like, OK, I get it now. I know what fatherhood is all about. And you look at your parents differently.

And after my mother's death I became more open to and empathetic about other people's struggles and losses.

I can definitely say the older I've got the better I've become at being a dad and a husband.

When I had to bury my child, I probably didn't start grieving until a year and a half later.

When I lost my dad, there was no one there to be the disciplinarian, and we kind of ran amok.

My mom had me when she was 25, and I'm 28 now, and just to even imagine myself three years ago starting to have children and be married and have my career, it's pretty trippy, and I'm so proud and kind of in awe of her.

I'm a mother now and married, and knowing what I know now, I would definitely have gone about things quite differently.

My mother was widowed twice before she turned forty.

I think any woman who has lost a child and certainly lost more than one child, there's going to be a part of them that they keep closed off forever.

I think part of maturity as an actress comes from their experience in getting married and having children.