Deb Caletti Quotes

Hide me from day's garish eye.

Since women ask me about male motives all the time, I can offer a bit of advice. If you feel like you're going to get hurt then you shouldn't be there in the first place. That's the way I look at relationships.

Fear is the great enemy of intimacy. Fear makes us run away from each other or cling to each other but does not create true intimacy.

I'll date one day if I find someone that I want to let into my life enough.

I'm not going to be in a relationship that I don't fully trust.

I manage to hide in my movies.

People who find that they have a lot of drama in their relationships need to allow themselves to get 'bored'. At first, it will feel excruciating, and they may find themselves confronting a very real fear underneath all that drama: being truly close and therefore vulnerable to another human being.

I knew, however, that the next morning after the fight I would have to get away, and I did just in time, for a full company came early to look for me and were furious because I had escaped them.

You could never hide yourself in these places - in Mies's Farnsworth house, for example. That was a mistake of Modernism. People need places to hide from each other, too. You need everything.

Hiding places there are innumerable, escape is only one, but possibilities of escape, again, are as many as hiding places.

Everything we do in life is based on fear, especially love.

Love you will find only where you may show yourself weak without provoking strength.

I think I survived by running away some. Running away to work.

I spent much of my life hiding.

The story of my life is about back entrances, side doors, secret elevators and other ways of getting in and out of places so that people won't bother me.

Interestingly, the best way to promote intimacy is to demand it.

People are so fearful about opening themselves up. All you want to do is to be able to connect with other people. When you connect with other people, you connect with something in yourself. It makes you feel happy. And yet it's so scary - it makes people feel vulnerable and unsafe.

There will be roughly 80 million people with a grievance who will be looking for me. I do not want them to find me.

I think part of real intimacy is being able to leave the room mad, and knowing that the other person will be there when you get back.

After having supplied myself with provisions from Mr. Travis's, I scratched a hole under a pile of fence rails in a field, where I concealed myself for six weeks, never leaving my hiding place but for a few minutes in the dead of night to get water, which was very near.

I think I'm always running away from somewhere, and to me, theatre's always felt like a good place to run away to.

I think you first have to feel 100% comfortable with the person that you are with. I have written in sessions where I am just meeting the person for the first time and it is extremely difficult.

Don't let men fool you... we all want love; we just know that it can leave us very vulnerable, and we seek a woman who understands and protects that with her life.

I was protected from a lot of publicity and politics of life.

Sometimes, when you act with someone in an intimate capacity, you have to ask vulnerable questions to speed up intimacy - but that's artificial.