Iyanla Vanzant Quotes

I made up my mind, but I made it up both ways.

Torn between fear and something that resembled love, she wrestled with questions she never dreamed she would face: How could she leave? Then again, how could she stay?

Some live in a state of passionate indecision.

Now I'm confused. Now I don't know what I want.

You can tell when something's not moving forward anymore. When the doubts you have about it don't go away.

We think we want to do something and when it comes to it, we don't. We don't like to commit.

How long halt ye between two opinions?

You don't want to leave 'what if's in life.

It's a kind of limbo, knowing what you want but not being quite sure how to go about doing it.

There is no shame is being ambivalent about almost everything in your life.

i wish i could freeze this moment, somehow delay my final decision, and just hang here in the balance between two places, two worlds, two loves.

I had two thoughts about it. One was I could do that, and the next one was I'll never get to do that.

Guilt can make you doubt yourself at the very moment when you need to proceed with certainty.

Do it or don't do it - you will regret both.

He looks like the sort of man who can't afford to leave, and doesn't want to stay, and so he is doing both at once.

I'm never, never sure which way to go. I'm full of unsureness. That's been a habit for years. I never really want to commit.

Doubt means don't. Don't move. Don't answer. Don't rush forward.

Often, if there's something that I want to do, but somehow can't get myself to do, it's because I don't have clarity. This lack of clarity often arises from a feeling of ambivalence - I want to do something, but I don't want to do it; or I want one thing, but I also want something else that conflicts with it.

It is worse to be irresolute than to be wrong.

You aren't sure if you're making the right decision - about anything, ever.

He can't decide whether to leave his visor half open or half closed.

I second-guess myself all the time. I make a decision and then wonder if I made the wrong choice.

It's not like you make a decision and everything inside you is 100 percent happy.

I look forward to change, but there is a part of me that absolutely dreads it.