Tim LaHaye Quotes

For me, compatibility is a sense of humour, being able to laugh together; that is very important.

If we're friends with someone and attracted to them, we're going to want to take it further.

Love goes toward love.

If we love something similar to ourselves, we endeavor, as far as we can, to bring it about that it should love us in return.

The main thing I learned doing love scenes with a woman was, if it's there, it's there.

He'd only been gone two seconds, but the room got brighter when they were together, as if they were two elements that became brilliant in proximity. At Sam's clumsy efforts to carry the vacuum, Grace smiled a new smile that I thought only he ever got, and he shot her a withering look full of the sort of subtext you could only get from a lot of conversations whispered after dark. It made me think of Isabel, back at her house. We didn't have what Sam and Grace had. We weren't even close to having it. I didn't think what we had could get to this, even if you gave it a thousand years.

Look your significant other in the eyes, make that connection.

I need sex for a clear complexion, but I'd rather do it for love.

In a relationship when things are really great you don't need to say anything and just enjoy the other person. Sometimes with a couple, it gets dark and you don't know what to say and that silence can last all day. Other times you don't want to stop talking because you don't want to lose one another.

Here's what I've learned about deal-breakers. If you have enough natural chemistry with someone, you overlook every single thing that you said would break the deal.

If fear is the great enemy of intimacy, love is its true friend.

When I was a kid - 10, 11, 12, 13 - the thing I wanted most in the world was a best friend. I wanted to be important to people; to have people that understood me. I wanted to just be close to somebody.

The woman I'm attracted to won't be based on what I write down on paper. It's going to be what I feel.

You can tell if someone's into you. You can feel the chemistry.

I couldn't care less about sex unless I meet someone who I think is wonderful.

You either have chemistry or you don't, but a lot of what attracts me is a guy's mind and humor and talent. I need to get to know all those things before I fall for someone.

Familiarity with your lover is what initially makes sex really good.

How do you create chemistry? If only I knew that! Some people say it's a natural thing that you have with someone, and maybe it is to do with that, but I think you can work on it.

How genuine is my capacity for love if there is no one for me to love, to laugh with, to treat tenderly, to be trusted by?

I think, when you get to know somebody on a personal level were you truly understand what makes them tick, what they play for, things they like to do in their spare time, you're around their families, I think you're kind of able to kind of coexist more when you have a relationship.

I have been driven by romance my whole life because I crave the intimacy that comes with that.

When I was in B2K, we were just talking about love, being in love. But now I'm talking about being intimate, understanding what love really is about.

I think chemistry is just about two people being comfortable with one another.

Any relationship, I'm talking about even with your kids, when you got something they can relate to - both of y'all - it helps.

A soulmate is someone who you could spend a great deal of time with just sitting on a sofa and feel happy. You don't need fanfare. You don't need to go out to expensive restaurants.