Matt Haig Quotes

What is love? Sometimes it's just letting yourself be who and what you are, and letting the person you're supposed to love be who and what he is too. Or maybe what and who they are.

I believe love is finding the person you're happiest with because he understands and accepts you the way you exactly are.

We do not fall in love with the package of the person, we fall in love with the inside of a person.

When you're in a relationship, if you just break it down to regular terms, people are attracted to something, and that's what they want you to be, and that's what you should just be, and for me, it's very simple - if I meet a girl and I say, 'This is what I like about you. Just continue. Every day.'

Falling in love is like owning a dog.

You're so beautiful But that's not why I love you And I'm not sure you know That the reason I love you, is you Being you, just you Yea the reason I love you Is all that we've been through And that's why I love you

My wife is my closest friend. Sure, I'm attracted to her in every way possible, but that's not the answer. Because I've been attracted to other people, and I couldn't stand 'em after a while.

We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness — and call it love — true love.

When brides ask me, "What's the best advice you can give me on my wedding day?" I always have the same answer: "Be yourself." Someone's marrying you, they love you for who you are, and they don't want you to be someone else.

If we love something similar to ourselves, we endeavor, as far as we can, to bring it about that it should love us in return.

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone - we find it with another.

When we love anyone with our whole hearts, life begins when we are with that person; it is only in their company that we are really and truly alive.

I've found a woman I can relate to. That's something - and I don't even feel sappy saying it - that, if anyone has that, don't lose it, because it's probably the only thing that you can ever really find any satisfaction from.

I don't think there's just one person for everyone. It would be very hard for me to be with a guy who was not bright or funny. And he'd have to see the absurdities of the world, not exactly as I see them necessarily.

Most of us fall in love with someone's persona and spend the next three to five years discovering who that person really is. If you can stay connected through that process of raw vulnerability, I think you have a shot at the prize of knowing and accepting another human being for who and what they really are after years of highs and lows.

I think friendship is more important than love, but that love that grows out of friendship is the very best of all.

Don't marry someone you would not be friends with if there was no sex between you.

Of all the myriad ways we define love, there is perhaps none more honest and powerful than this: Great love is rooted in great partnership.

I just want to find somebody special, somebody that I click with.

Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities.

We all want to be in love and find that person who is going to love us no matter how our feet smell, no matter how angry we get one day, no matter the things we say that we don't mean.

Love is made by two people, in different kinds of solitude. It can be in a crowd, but in an oblivious crowd.

I have never thought about my sexuality being right or wrong. To me it has always been a case of finding the right person.