Victoria Monet Quotes

It would have been convenient to be gay. Just because of the grooming, the narcissism, stuff like that. But I have this kind of roaring heterosexuality. Traditional, uncomplicated heterosexuality, an almost cliched Robin Askwith thing.

I think a lot of people who say they are bisexual aren't.

For many years I thought I was bisexual. And then I would ask myself, 'What is bisexual? Does that even exist?'

Straight people say, 'You know you're just gay,' and gay people say, 'You know you're just gay.' There is such a thing as bisexual!

A lot of people told me I should be quiet about being bisexual and not say anything, but for me this is a part of my identity.

I identify as a gay man all the time, but I also like to identify as queer.

A man who reads effeminate may well be consistently heterosexual, and another one might be gay. We can't read sexuality off of gender.

I spent years growing up being told what my sexuality was.

I'm not a lesbian. I just think that all humans are born with the ability to be attracted to both sexes.

But I don't believe anyone begins a homosexual.

I've fallen for straight men, I've fallen for gay men, I've fallen for straight women and gay women. I really have. I had crushes on really every single kind of person in the world.

The adage that you're either gay or straight or you're lying, well, that's not true. Bisexuality does exist.

It's a cosmic joke that I'm a lesbian, because I understand men so well but women are a complete mystery to me.

I have been very clear to everybody that just because I'm getting married does not mean I call myself a straight.

Bisexuality means I am free and I am as likely to want to love a woman as I am likely to want to love a man, and what about that? Isn't that what freedom implies?

I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women.

All identity labels are umbrella terms to some degree, but this term 'bisexual' is not only serviceable, but it is sufficient. And yes, it brings together a bunch of people who are maybe shades different from one another. And maybe that's the beauty of labels: that they force you to be with other people and see the difference.

Frankly, no one had ever asked me before. My sexuality is something I'm completely comfortable with and open about.

I define my sexuality in terms of the people that I love.

I am the heterosexual Truman Capote.

I've been kind of toying around with the bi thing in my head. I wouldn't ever give myself the label 'bisexual', but bi-curious? Yea.

I think one's sexuality can be the center of life, and coming out and discovering your sexuality is something that really can define your existence.

I think everybody's always attracted to both sexes. I mean, I think that women are very attractive. I've kissed girls, but everybody experiments. It's part of growing up.

I think heterosexuality and homosexuality are a kind of psychosis, and the truth is somewhere in the middle.

There is a history of gay people pretending to be straight. I want to balance the sides. I'm a straight person pretending to be gay. I've had a lot of people to imitate. It's easy when you're British; we're camp by nature, anyway.