Jessie J Quotes

If there's an inkling of abuse, I have to move on. Even jealousy - seems cute it first, but if they're getting in my head, it's not right for me. It's okay to be alone. It's okay to be single. The right thing will come along.

I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself!!

I want to tell women that you need to love yourself and make yourself a priority. It's only when you are happy yourself, can you make everyone else around you happy. I am still a dreamer and still believe in fairy tales, but there is only that much one should give another person. You need to keep something for yourself.

I learned about not just being with someone because I don't want to be alone: being willing to be alone, and then find something that feels right and just reaching for companionship for companionship's sake. Not letting drama lead my life.

There's nothing wrong with a little self-possession, there's beauty in taking time for yourself just because you feel like it, and there's nothing wrong with not divulging every secret!

I don't want to spend my energy on people who don't like me.

Know your worth and please don't invest in toxic people or relationships, because any bond that requires servicing is not worth your time.

It's not healthy to ever put someone first before yourself.

If you can't love me the right way, then don't love me at all. Don't be mad at me because I prefer to be happy.

If a guy can't handle your crazy pictures, he's probably not someone you want in your life.

If you're not someone who has a natural and effortless love for yourself, it's hard to let go of your desire to please other people, and that's really not an ingredient for a happy life.

Bending over backwards does not bring you the love and attention you crave, but having your own life, your own goals and a backbone will.

I didn't write my book, 'I Don't Care About Your Band,' in order to give women a brand-new set of dating rules they need to feel terrible about not abiding. I wrote my book to make the women who read it feel good about themselves, and a little more entitled to be treated well by the guys they go out with.

I find running life quite hard, and I like sharing that. Obviously, the companionship, being loved and loving, is fantastic. But I don't feel that I couldn't live without a boyfriend or lover or husband.

I'm careful with my heart. I don't take crap from no one these days. I put my foot down. Being a woman, you deserve heaven and earth.

Nobody deserves your tears, but whoever deserves them will not make you cry.

Someday, when I manage to finally figure out how to take care of myself, then I'll consider taking care of someone else.

You are so much better off on your own than with the wrong person.

I have spent far too many years trying to make everybody like me. It's not possible. People can say or think what they want.

People aren't defined by their relationship. The whole point is being true to yourself and not losing yourself in relationships, whether romances or friendships.

Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.

I date, but the person I date most is myself, unfortunately.

You just have to surround yourself with people who are going to support and love you before trying to sell you as a product, or push you into something you don't want to do.

Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself.

Well, I went through some emotionally abusive relationships and allowed myself to not be properly respected as a lady, as a human being even, though I tried everything I knew to be a lady.