Jessica Cutler Quotes

You don't want to miss out on something and feel like an idiot.

We are becoming so fickle and self involved. Always looking for the next best thing - especially when it comes to people. We spend hours buried in our phones trying to keep up with the social lives of people we may not even know. Envy and the fear of missing out have taken over. Yet we are all still longing for human connection.

It always feel like people are doing more grown-up things than you are.

One of the best ways to deal with the peer pressure of the 'Fear of Missing Out' is to opt-out whenever possible.

I always feel as if I'm a disappointment: that people want a grand dame in furs like Barbara Taylor Bradford.

Everything I know I imagine everyone else knows as well. And then everything that everyone else knows I imagine they know on top of what I know, so I'm constantly anxious about what everyone else knows.

Jealousy is the fear of comparison.

Sometimes I'll be sitting on Facebook at home and see all these people getting married, having kids, having that life that I was told I should have. And sometimes I feel like I'm doing something wrong. Am I the stupid one here? Am I not doing what I'm supposed to do? And that's also equally as stressful.

I was really nervous, intimidated by the whole thing-all the people and all the buzzing, and all the sitting around waiting. I felt really small in this huge place.

I have a very ostrich mentality. I feel like I have my head in the sand so no one can see me.

I believe that people who don't achieve anything in life are isolated and resent those that are successful.

Jealous, adj. Unduly concerned about the preservation of that which can be lost only if not worth keeping.

You're always tellin' me to go out more, Go ahead, get out and see the world, But then I think, why should I? I'd rather stay home and cry.

You feel like everyone hates you if you've got a good life, now I feel maybe it's allowed because I've had my share of sadness.

I spent much of my life hiding.

The surest route to breeding jealousy is to compare. Since jealousy comes from feeling less than another, comparisons only fan the fires.

Because I am basically so insecure and anxious and afraid, I never, ever in my life learned to reach out for help, ever.

I'm a sponge. I sometimes don't want to go out of my house because it's like, 'Who's going to make me cry today?'

Coming up in this country, I've seen it so many times. When you see somebody rising you want to tear them down because you feel inadequate and you want to call it humble.

When we have built up armor against all the bad things we think might happen in the world, we have a false sense of protection and have only built up isolation.

I've talked about tall poppy syndrome when I see people. I used to be like, 'Why am I feeling this way? What is that person taking from me that makes me feel inadequate?' That same feeling you feel when you feel uncomfortable because people start talking about racism, lean into that feeling, don't just look away from it, because you can't pretend.

When it comes to personal appearance, people are quick to cast judgment on people who look better than them. It's part of the human inferiority complex.

I hate the term black sheep, but I just felt like I wasn't keeping up. It was a subtle pressure I put on myself.

jealousy is conceived only in insecurity and must be nourished in fear.

Nothing feels worse than other people's good times.