Dustin Lance Black Quotes

I am not gay in real life.

I'm not gay.

I grew up in a family where many of our close friends were gay couples. As well as that, every man goes through a period of thinking they're attracted to another guy.

I'm homosexual... How and why are idle questions. It's a little like wanting to know why my eyes are green.

Actual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay.

What love life? I'm not gay, but I might as well be.

My sexuality is irrelevant.

A man who reads effeminate may well be consistently heterosexual, and another one might be gay. We can't read sexuality off of gender.

Being able to live my life transparently does empower me to feel like I can be myself more. It's easier for me to flirt with girls now that girls know that I'm gay. It almost makes it a sexier encounter than if I was trying to pretend that I was straight.

I don't think you choose whether or not you're gay.

I, Binyavanga Wainaina, quite honestly swear I have known I am a homosexual since I was five.

I was raised around heterosexuals, as all heterosexuals are, that's where us gay people come from... you heterosexuals.

I am not bisexual. I am not gay. I have never had sex with men.

We learn our sexual preferences and orientations.

I don't think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I'm gay.

In the male homosexual community, we love to label and categorize and organize each other as if we are in a never-ending high school biology class.

My sexuality is a part of me that I really like. But it's not the totality of me.

I don't encourage people to choose any sort of sexuality.

I consider myself gay because at the end of the night, that's who I want to cuddle with. But when I go out, I go to straight clubs.

I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women.

I am camp. Lots of gay men can't cope with their campness. They are in denial about it.

In terms of sexual orientation I don't really feel I've changed. I don't feel there was a hidden part of my sexuality that I wasn't aware of. I'd been with men all my life, and I'd never fallen in love with a woman. But when I did, it didn't seem so strange.

I could always escape into this demi-monde of homosexuality, which I feel really indebted to. It stopped me being a 'mummy's boy.'

Sexuality is such a small part of the make-up of someone; it's not who they are.

Jenny McCarthy was the one I thought could turn me straight. I thought that if I could just get my shot with her, it could happen.