Gordon Neufeld Quotes


Children need to trust and depend upon those who are responsible for them.


Citations

Neufeld, Gordon, and Gabor Maté. Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. Ballantine Books, 2005.

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Gordon Neufeld
Gordon Neufeld
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  • Nationality: Canadian
  • Profession: Psychologist

Gordon Neufeld (1946) is a developmental psychologist and author of the book Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (co-authored with Canadian physician Gabor Maté) that has been translated into 10 languages. The Neufeld approach (his attachment-based developmental model) is based on the attachment theory formulated by John Bowlby. He developed a theory of attachment that includes six stages in the development of the capacity for relationship, the construct of polarization that explains both shyness and defensive detachment. His model of attachment is universal in both its application (adults as well as children) and implementation (school as well as home).