Havelock Ellis Quotes

If you have to be frightening, you need some actors around you to be really frightened. And if they're not frightened, you're not so frightening anymore. In the same way, people say, 'I think you come in, and you're really sexy'. But how do you play sexy? It depends on the eyes that are looking.

Not even girls want to be girls so long as our feminine archetype lacks force, strength, and power.

You can seduce a man without taking anything off, without even touching him.

I don't think a powerful man would be interesting unless he'd be nice, attractive, with or without the power. Men are interested in powerful men. Women are interested in terrific men!

I think men know to seduce women though words and conversation and nice gestures. That's much sexier than when a man uses muscle.

When I look someone in the eye, they are immediately smitten with me.

The core of my work is dedicated not to pleasing women, but to pleasing men. Men are like bulls. They cannot resist the red sole.

I don't use my body to seduce, no. I just stand there.

I'm told I'm an incredible flirt because I don't know I'm doing it. I don't want to even analyse it, but I seduce people, apparently; I suck them in.

If you find someone attractive, you try to make them find you attractive. That is called seduction. And seduction is a bit ugly. You could say it's a bit ugly to use your charisma.

Women don't realize how powerful they are.

When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome.

Charm is the ability to make someone else think that both of you are pretty wonderful.

Power is seductive.

There is no bigger aphrodisiac than power.

To me, the biggest attraction is a woman's charisma, her soul, her inner strength.

In 'Drama,' I play a flirtatious girl who uses her femininity to get things done.

It is fair to despise a cowardly man, but the female sex is strongest when it's weak.

You know, [women] do not really condemn any weakness: rather, they try to humiliate or disarm our strengths. That is why women arethe reward, not of the warrior, but of the criminal.

Femininity is a lot of power. It's allure. And the moment you start competing directly with a man, it's not that fun.

We love things that are dangerous yet sexy. We love things that are powerful and wise.

Talkers have always ruled. They will continue to rule. The smart thing is to join them.

Charm is a woman's strength just as strength is a man's charm.

Beauty draws more than oxen.

Writing is seduction.