James Redfield Quotes

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.

When you blame yourself, you learn from it. If you blame someone else, you don't learn nothing, cause hey, it's not your fault, it's his fault, over there.

I'm not really in the excuse business.

If I've done anything wrong, I believe it's his fault.

Everybody is responsible for their own actions. It's easy to point the finger at somebody else, but a real man, a real woman, a real person knows when it's time to take the blame and when to take responsibility for their own actions.

You cannot always blame others if things go wrong.

Everybody is looking for a reason to not to take responsibility for their own actions in hand.

People don't want to accept the responsibility for their own weakness, so they place the blame on something that they're not responsible for, like disease or genetics.

You cannot blame everything on the enemy.

Such is our need to shower blame on some distant entity when it is we who lack the courage to face up to what is there before us.

A loser is someone who makes excuses and alibis and blames everyone else for their losses and failures.

Blaming others is excusing yourself.

You have yourself to blame.

Blame is a neat little device that you can use whenever you don't want to take responsibility for something in your life. Use it and you will avoid all risks and impede your own growth.

The words It's not my fault! should never again come from your mouth. The words It's not my fault! have been symbolically written on the gravestones of unsuccessful people ever since Eve took her first bite of the apple.

If you don't accept responsibility for your own actions then you are forever chained to a position of defense.

I cannot shift the blame for Chechnya, for the sorrow of numerous mothers and fathers. I made the decision, therefore I am responsible.

It's easy to blame other people when things aren't going well.

Don't try to blame the rest of the world. The blame only lies with you. Recognize that immediately.

A man always blames the woman who fools him. In the same way he blames the door he walks into in the dark.

One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs - blame and projection.

An artist is his own fault.

When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself.

It's too easy to blame other people in football.

Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.